When someone msg you and at the back of the msg added: "don't be late" What is the first thing that came to ur mind when u saw this msg? I assume that most ppl would try their best not to be late, because maybe meeting this time have their special reason, so they call you not to be late.

For me, Of course when i read this msg, i will also feel quite disapointed myself as they are just like suanning you that you are the one who's always late.

So when you reach that place on time, no 1 came... So when you call back that person, the person want to hang off quickly without telling you his excatly location.

15 to 20 min of waiting was of course all right for most of the ppl, but when you call back that person to ask his location again " that person say "if you want to go you can go first..."

Ok... was that a fair reply? Think about that and that the reason why i got so agitated during that instant.... What came into my mind was " wow, when you are late, i wait for you it's ok, but why call me to go when i have already confirm meeting you all? " Selfish anot?

what more the wanting to hang off feel make me more du lan....

And late coming down even without a pai sei, "pai sei"...

Starting i was all right, maybe is the person standing beside me make my anger go up to. Met zhao in the station while waiting. I told him, my friend very buay steady, late still call me go first.

He replied me: " wow, like this you still can tahan ah"....

For me i could be easily influence at times....Now, i lost control easily, maybe that the main reason i got flare up too. Or maybe the person i talk to that instant should not be you, should be kt. Cause the most bu shuang part was this sentence " if you want to go you can go first..."

Added on, when after i call them, i call another friend, "where are you? why you late?", this person don't know got think anot one reply me " Why cannot"?

Ok... Fine... tolerate....

Writting all this, is not that i am petty.... But to let you know what i am thinking.... During that point of time whatever is to say is just crap to you i guess. But i guess after blogging today i will forget about this case liao...

So friends next time when you have something important to meet then add a "don't be late" sentence at the back of the msg. Its have a great impact on me now.

when you are late, it's better to call that person first. (This is what i always do right?)

Thinking back... Yea, i was the one of them who is considering always late. But for most of the time, When i reach on time or slightly later then the time we meet, i saw ppl who get later and later...

Habit have grown among our friend as everyone have this concept, coming early he would also be late still need to wait for him then what for i came on time?

That was a habit so hard to change.....

I agree i am sometime 1 of them when meet late, but i always give myself a 10 min grace. Don't late more then 10 min if not i will consider really as "late".

I knew i was the one always late in the past. I will try not to be late... I hate this word "late" now...

written at.12:09 PM